A Lesson From Mr Edison

by Paul Castain on February 12, 2010

There are volumes of sales books that reference the famous story of how Edison failed more than 9,000 times before cracking the code to invent the light bulb! The lesson is obviously to stick with it and no matter how many no’s we get there is surely to be a yes just around the corner.

There are two other little known lessons that we can pull from Mr. Edison!

One is all about the attitude. For most of us in sales; repeated, unrelenting rejection weighs on our soul in 50 lb increments slowing us down and in many cases dragging us down to a slow and painful halt! With each failed attempt, Thomas Edison grew more excited and rumor has it that he might have been moon walking and slapping his co workers on the ass as he started rounding that 9,000th” no go” . Alright, I made up the moon walking and ass slapping, but the dude was excited! He was excited because he knew that with each attempt he was ruling out the wrong way of attacking the light bulb and thus narrowing his search for the right way to do it!

Talk about a dose of perspective! Most of us would have been inconsolable after the 20th “screw you”!

“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up”

Thomas  Edison


Today’s Reflection (Part 1) Change your perspective from “Why me?” “It sucks out there” and all that other garbage to “There’s a code and I simply haven’t cracked it!”

The second lesson has to do with journaling. Thomas Edison documented each one of those attempts so he could take the most important thing from it . . . THE LESSON!

How are you doing in that department? Are you documenting and taking your lesson?

For 15 years now I have been keeping a journal. I don’t write that hokey “Dear Diary” stuff at least not to the extent I would acknowledge in a blog. I try to mark my path on my journey to figure all this stuff out. When I do something I feel is on point; I jot it down. When I do something I feel was disastrous I write it down. I believe that in life we are thrown off balance many times. I want you to picture the vision of losing your balance. When you lose your balance, you reach for something. In sales we are reaching for our words, the right comeback etc. In that moment, we are either going to say something brilliant or we are going to have a Forrest Gump moment. Either way, the most important part, is that we take the lesson and document it! Worked for Edison, right?

Today’s Reflection (Part Dos) Go out and buy a journal! You are NOT, under any circumstances to buy a sh***y spiral book. Go get a leather bound or one that looks worthy of your thoughts. The late Jim Rohn once said (and I am paraphrasing) that you buy a nice journal to encourage you to put something in there worth reading.

I guess at the end of the day, this hokey stuff works otherwise we would be reading this by candlelight!

Who knows better than Mr. Edison!

Oh, and before I forget . . . Don’t you dare give up . . . you are closer than you think! Seriously dude!

One disclaimer: Engaging in ass slapping may induce unwanted HR meetings!

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  • http://www.WeExpectSuccess.com Pam Wasserman

    Right on the money. I must be walking the talk because this is exactly what I did this week. I lost a really big prospect and then got snowed in the next day. I spent the day reflecting and reading to discover the lesson and did I mention journaling? Then I read your blog! You are one of my Rock Stars!
    Keep bangin’ my head,
    Pam Wasserman

  • http://www.yoursalesplaybook.com/ Paul Castain

    @ Pam Wasserman: Thank you for stopping by to contribute. Much appreciation for the kind words too!

    Edison said something that I believe sums it all up “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

    Spot on if you ask me. In fact, I’m going to edit my post and get this quote in there.

    Rock on Pam!

    Respectfully,
    Paul Castain

  • http://www.bakerfurniture.com John Saint-Denis

    So right on for me today! Another thing to learn from and Edison and from the light bulb, is that what makes it work is a little resistance between the positive and negative. If you just hooked up the electrical contacts – positive to negative, you’d get one big blast of light, then a short ciruit, and then nothing. The key to a long light is a little resistance. The metarphor? Good relationships, whether in business or life, require a little obstacle to shine. See obstacles as opportunity for light!

  • http://www.bakerfurniture.com John Saint-Denis

    Should read…So right on for me today! Another thing to learn from Edison and from the light bulb, is that what makes it work is a little resistance between the positive and negative. If you just hooked up the electrical contacts – positive to negative, you’d get one big blast of light, then a short ciruit, and then nothing. The key to a long light is a little resistance. The metarphor? Good relationships, whether in business or life, require a little obstacle to shine. See obstacles as opportunity for light!

  • http://businessheretics.com/ Joel D Canfield, Chief Heretic

    I spent 2009 drilling 9 1/2″ deep holes in a 10″ thick wall. I suspect that the entire effect the recession had on my finances as self-induced.

    My friend and sales trainer Jerry Kennedy gets totally jazzed when a prospect tells him ‘no’ because it’s solid evidence he’s heading the right direction, and making actual progress.

    I love counterintuitive thinking like that.

  • http://www.yoursalesplaybook.com/ Paul Castain

    @ John Saint – Denis: Fantastic point about working with resistance. I’m appreciative of that and have put it in my journal so I can own that lesson my friend!

    @ Joel D Canfield: I not only agree with what you are saying, I really believe there is a blank check waiting for counter intuitive thinkers. We need that mindset more than ever today!

    Thanks again for contributing!

    Respectfully,
    Paul Castain

  • http://www.salesdujour.com Gary S. Hart

    Paul, Thomas is another of my heroes because of his intestinal fortitude. Coincidence? As incredible of an inventor that Thomas was, he was that much better of an entrepreneur and it is no surprise that Henry Ford and he were best friends.

    Counterintuitivity is not only the definition of thinking outside of the box; it defines the nonexistence of the box.

    Love your site and may it grow abundantly!

  • http://www.blackbeltguide.com Marc Winitz

    First time I have read “Ass Slap” and Thomas Edison in the same sentence, so hat’s off Paul. I am a big believer in writing down any meeting notes after it has occurred. I have not done the success/failure aspect (usually I just do the notes of what transpired). That’s a good habit for any sales pro to be in. I am going to add in the what worked and what didn’t element you suggest here – it’s a really fantastic idea.//Marc

  • http://www.meetingtowin.com/ Jill

    Thanks for helping me justify my journal buying habit! Seriously, though, I do look back over these journals from years past and am pleasantly surprised with what I’ve learned. Thanks for the lesson.

  • http://donfperkins.blogspot.com Don F Perkins

    Pauly

    The two keys I get from your post are the value of persistence and learning from our mistakes. While I’ve met a boat load of persistent sales people, I’ve not witnessed a lot of reflection. Most choose instead to “wing it” and hope they don’t make the same mistakes next time.

    Your journal idea is great. Another of the best practices in reflection: Consider performing a “post mortem” on lost deals to determine why the loss and what might be done differently next time to win instead. If possible, involve a few different people to get a well rounded analysis. While this all takes a little time investment up front, it can pay huge dividends long term. The best part is that it changes failures which have no value into learning experiences which are invaluable as they cannot be obtained any other way.

    Another of Edison’s quotes: “All you need to be an inventor is a good imagination and a pile of junk.” This should give us hope because it means that success is within the grasp of us all. The resources are out there, we need only supply the chutzpah.

    Cheers!

    Don F Perkins

  • http://www.yoursalesplaybook.com/ Paul Castain

    @ Gary S Hart Thank you for the kind words! I really appreciate you saying that and thoroughly enjoy watching the growth of my Sales Playbook community!

    I couldn’t agree with you more with regard to counter intuitiveness. In fact, now more than ever, is the age of the counter intuitive thinker. We drop the phrase “disruptive technology” quite often these days. Trace that back a few steps and you will find someone who is willing to think disruptively.

    Your statement about “the box” is spot on. Its now a re defined space and with that is ownership of the space! Powerful stuff if you ask me Gary!

    Marc: I wish I had realized the point about seeing what worked and what didn’t much earlier in my career. I knew I should do it, heard it many times too. I’ve only been doing that now for about 13 or 14 years and of that time, seriously doing it for almost 10. Putting myself in the mindset of “student” has changed my game dramatically to say the least!

    @ Jill: What a nice note! You know, when I look back on my journals, not only do I find gems of valuable info, I can see how I’ve grown over the years and in some cases where I haven’t and still need to.

    @ Don F Perkins: You nailed it! I still maintain that its not so much our victory or our failure . . . its the lesson Don. The value is in the lesson. Otherwise we are going to school but we aren’t being educated!

    You obviously grasp this concept and I can’t speak for you but this only came to me with maturity (getting old dude) I never sought the lesson, I was looking for the win and in the absence of the win, pissing and moaning about the loss. I should have been hunting a lesson.

    Damn, that inspires me dude!

    Your final point is the key. Challenges aren’t new. They have been there since the dawn of mankind. The ones who made their mark simply asked a different question, had a different focus!

    Thank you all for stopping by and learning with me!

    Respectfully,
    Paul Castain

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