BBQ’s, Beers & Remembrance

by Paul Castain on May 31, 2010

Every now and again, life has a way of delivering powerful messages via left hook.  At least that’s how it played out for me one day in a Memphis airport.

My flight had been delayed so I moved to Plan B . . . my I-Pod so I could tune out all the pissed off travelers. Somewhere between Ozzy and VanHalen I caught sight of something that struck an emotional chord.

It was a young soldier (perhaps 18 or 19) who looked like he had the weight of the world on his shoulders. I don’t know where he was going, but I felt him thinking about it.  What a lonely moment.

It didn’t last long!

A young couple approached the soldier with a cup of coffee and sat down next to him and they were interrupted at least half a dozen times by people thanking this young man for his service. I guess whatever he was about to face made a delayed flight look like playtime.

Isn’t it funny how if we stop long enough and open our eyes, the true meaning of a set of circumstances appears?

I hope that will be the case for all of us today as we indulge in the beer, the bbq’s and the holiday weekend.

I ask that you remember those who have fallen so that we might enjoy the freedom we have today.

Wherever you are in the world today: Please raise your glass to honor them or offer a moment of silence

Oh and before I forget, I need to clear up some unfinished personal business. (talk amongst yourselves)

To my brother Michael Castain Navy Seal, Vietnam

To my brother Thomas Castain, USMC, Vietnam

and to my Dad Desmond Castain, USMC WWII

Thank you for your service your family is proud and grateful!

A toast to remembrance!

  • Mike Weinberg

    Amen to all of that. Thank you Paul. And thank you to the heroes who have given all that we might remain free.

  • http://www.asimpleguyblog.blogspot.com Dan Collins

    “No greater love is there than he who lays down his life”

    Thank You for this poignant and respectful post Paul.

  • http://www.Fearless-Selling.ca Kelley Robertson

    You’re a class act, Paul.

    It never really dawned on me how young these soldiers are until I saw one waiting for a flight in the Atlanta airport a couple of years ago.

    Be well my friend.
    Kelley

  • John Ashmore

    As a Brit who has worked in the US recently for a period I too was extremely impressed with the way airport travellers treated your military when they were either returning home or leaving your shores. I also have a high regard for fighting men and women who risk the ultimate sacrifice fighting terror on behalf of their country.
    Paul, I like your words and thoughts. We all need reminding…………

  • http://www.neilwoodconsulting.com Neil Wood

    Thank you Paul! I called my father this morning to thank him and tell him how proud I am of the 3 tours he did for his country – in the Viet Nam war. I enjoyed my 4 years in the Air Force – although they were in Northern Italy during peace time. Proud to serve! Go USA!!

  • http://www.majestic-bm.com Luther McNeil

    I would like to personally salute all of the veterans that ever wore an uniform of this great nation. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE.

    PEACE!!!

  • Bob Van Winter

    With a son at Annapolis and many new friends with children who are serving our country and are in harms way your words mean more to me today than ever before. God bless your family for their service to our great nation!

  • Richard Morris

    Paul, its been a special weekend for me because this is the first Memorial Day since my son became a US Marine earlier this year. We are grateful and thankful to have him home for a brief weekend and most importantly we are proud of his commitment to service to our great country. We don’t know what the future will bring for us or the many families with service men and women out there but we do know that Courage, Honor, and Commitment will always prevail.

  • http://www.yoursalesplaybook.com/ Paul Castain

    It is really quite moving to see people taking the time to stop by to comment on a holiday weekend in between our own version of the bbq’s and the beers.

    For those of you with family in the military, know that my thoughts, prayers and gratitude go out to you.

    For those of you who have served . . . I begin each day with gratitude knowing that the freedom I enjoy has been earned and protected by our armed forces.

    With respect, appreciation and remembrance,
    Paul Castain

  • http://www.antarcticadigital.com Mike Rebak

    Another great post Paul.

    While we don’t celebrate Memorial Day in Canada, I am an American Citizen and am damn proud to be one too. I will be raising a glass tonight to all those who have fought and are still fighting for our freedom.

    When traveling on my hockey journeys, I too saw many soldiers in airports both coming and going. It was incredible how many people stopped and said thank you. I thanked a young guy fresh out of high school and he noticed the Canadian flag on my hockey sticks. He had just returned from Afghanistan and spoke highly of the Canadians he served with. Another shining example of the brotherhood of our two wonderful countries. Thank you America for protecting us as well.

    To my late grandfather, Joe Shouse, USAF Bomber pilot, WWII
    (I have his journal from the war. Incredible stuff)

    Cheers

  • http://savortheride.com ridgely johnson

    Thank you for capturing what I feel in my soul. I am so proud to be an American. My Daddy was in the Navy & served in the Korean War. Memorial Day was very special to him. He would have loved your post.

  • Joanna Castain

    Very touching Paul! Thank you.And THANK YOU to all who fought and are fighting for us! God Bless you all!

  • http://www.salesdujour.com Gary S. Hart

    God bless you and your family.

  • http://www.yoursalesplaybook.com/ Paul Castain

    Much appreciation to those who stopped by to offer a kind word of support.

    This sales playbook community never ceases to amaze me.

    I am humbled by your profound Memorial Day sentiments!

    Respectfully,
    Paul Castain

  • http://www.source-recovery.com Jim

    Regrettably, we lost another fellow marine just yesterday in Helmand Province. The sacrafice these men and women make and loss that their families endure dewarfs any problems we might face.

    Semper fi,

    Jim

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