I thought it would be cool to study some of the folks on Twitter who really “get it”. So, for the last year, I took a really close look and jotted down some best practices that have guided me in my “Castain 2.0″ rebranding quest.
Here they are in no particular order!
- They aren’t “Me Centered”: You can really learn a lot about someone by their tweets (why am I still uncomfortable with that word). One of the biggest turn offs for me is when I click on a profile and all I see are tweets about their new article, how their company is the bestest, I just did this, my company just did that. The best examples on Twitter are by those who are pointing their followers to other people as resources as well. They mention, they RT, they share their community. Then I look at how many followers they have and how many people they follow back. When I see something like 3,000 followers and following back 700 it gives me the impression of someone who misses the community aspect of the venue and might be a tad hung up on “Me, Me, Me”. The most successful people on Twitter are the ones that clearly get the community part of the equation. Now that brings us to the next quality . . .
- They Interact! Whether it’s graciously thanking someone for a mention or re tweet, acknowledging someone in their network or even some brief back and forth . . . they are actually evil geniuses believe it or not. Why? Because they understand that people want to interact with a brand. Companies like Starbucks, Kodak and Zappos really get this. They understand that the interaction is part of the trust factor necessary to get and keep clients. I believe there is a lesson in that for us sales folk and our personal brand! Oh, and they understand something else that I want you to think about . . . Everyone has a story and wants to be heard. They acknowledge that which is important to the other person. This is no different than conventional networking (other than the fact that we are doing it in front of millions) Show enough interest in other people and a high percentage of your followers will naturally want to know about you! Personally I think there is a rather cool mystique in that approach but then again I’m a bit of a complex carbohydrate when it comes to these things.
- They aren’t a “Flatliner”. For those of you who don’t know what a “Flatliner” is, I’m referring to someone who is absolutely freakin dead in the personality dept. You know damn well what I’m talking about too!. The ones that when you talk to them, you wish God would give you that heart attack he was saving for later in your life! The most successful people on Twitter are interesting. They vary their tweets with a healthy diet of information, humor, interaction, RT’s, mentions, resources etc. I know of one person who just bored the piss out of me with his constant tweets about what he is reading. For the longest time I felt like Dr Evil with my finger dangling over the un follow button, but now that I vaporized the bastard, I’d like to think he is in a happier place.
- They are approachable! This is huge and its part of that interaction thing I keep mentioning. There are some people on twitter that will not respond to you, thank you for an RT etc. They are either too busy looking in the mirror counting followers or they are partaking in the old Middle School BS of sticking to their crowd. I was absolutely flawed that Twitter studs like Chris Brogan authors like Bob Burg (The Go Giver), Anthony Parinello (Selling To V.I.T.O.) Hank Trisler (No Bull Selling) not only respond, but have a genuine interest and graciousness about them. And mentioning them here is just business as usual for these people. I guess when people like you, they talk about you behind your back. What do you think they do when you engage in “Twitter Snobbery”? Reflect on that one class!
- They Use Adjustable Sights. The smart networkers in this space focus on 3 things simultaneously : What’s above as in who are the people that are a few steps ahead of them in terms of results and even (dare I say) popularity. Those who are the up and comers. A smart strategy because that person you snub today might be a Twitter Stud (or studette) tomorrow. They also focus on people at the peer level. They share resources, give of themselves freely and as share their community on multiple levels!
- They Cross Pollinate! They don’t just hang out on Twitter, they blog, they are on Linkedin and Facebook. They also do something else . . .
- They Move It From Virtual to Real Time! As I’ve said before, our online activities are useless. Do you have thousands of followers? Have you become “Internet Famous”? Great job. Now try paying your mortgage with that Forrest! People in the know, move these relationships to real time by attending “Tweetups”, meeting for a drink, speaking engagements, dinner, lunch, a phone call. Doing this makes you real and puts you light years ahead of all the others counting their followers and waiting for their star on the “Internet Famous Walk Of Fame”. Don’t get so hung up on the technology side of Sales 2.0 that you fail to realize that its driven by relationships!
- They Are Consistent: You can count them delivering value every day. They don’t show up today, skip 3 weeks, tweet like hell and disappear for a few days. They are dependable. Like a new pair of underwear. I put that there to make sure you were awake, although I think that would make a cool saying!
- They Don’t Overdo It!. I know of a few self proclaimed “Social Media Experts” that think nothing of rapid fire tweeting so much sh*t that they quickly become this annoying relative that keeps inviting himself over for dinner. Why not use a Potato chip strategy where you give people a few chips so they want to reach for the whole bag. Success lies in your ability to make them reach for the bag. Don’t ever forget that.
- They are real! They aren’t auto tweeting and auto following and auto messaging. Being real also goes back to not being a flatliner. They show that they are human and vulnerable. Nuff said!
- They Are Intentional: They understand that this is about community and trust and everything they do points to that. They don’t tweet some random, stream of conciousness, “dear diary” crap. They are deliberate in their approach with the reader in mind at all times!
So there you have it. My take on what it takes to be successful on Twitter or even in your day to day quest to become that rock star you set out to be!
Rock on!





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You nailed it Paul!
Awesome!
Excellent article. I would add one other attribute to make it an even dozen, and this attribute sort of summarizes what you are saying with the other 11 points. Good Twitter practitioners add genuine value, i.e. via actionable information that helps you to do your job better (in the professonal realm) or enhances your personal life.
@Larry: Thanks
@ Christopher Ryan: Fantastic point and you are 100% correct. Thanks for your valuable input!
Paul
Hi Paul,
1st, I think your new site is way cool.
Thanks for the info, I’m not sure if tweeting is for me. How do you begin using Tweeter? I find that I’m just hanging back not sure what to say.
HI Paul,
Great points, great article.
I’ve been tipping my toes into the twitter pool. I have 2 genuine conderns about plunging in.
1) I’ve been following a small number of tweaters (23) and every day I have a page full of mostly good stuff – I have time to pick out one or two good pieces (including your article). But if I was following hundreds, how am I going to pick out the gems in a pool full of crap (you already wrote about them above – the “it’s snowing today” types)
I also see people tweat to others and I think – “you should have put that in an email to them. I’m not interested.
2) I did a straw poll of my customers recently and none of them use twitter. So who am I really connecting with?
Please don’t read this as any form of polemic. These are genuine questions I haven’t resolved in my mind yet.
I would appreciate your thoughts.
Paul
@ Jay Fusci: I think this stuff always begins with some thought about your brand and what you want people to say about you behind your back. Obviously who you want those people to be is important too. Then I would consider articles, tips, studies, resources etc to speak to that audience. Its like anything else Jay, in that these things scare the hell out of you when you first start (me when I started my blog a little over a year ago) but you will find your voice as you continue to try things, make note of whether its working or not and adjusting.
Feel free to email me offline if I can help you in any way.
@Paul Lanigan: I hated Twitter when I first started on it. A year ago, people really didn’t know how to use the venue and it was chock full of play by play noise. I take responsibility for some of that because I’m the rocket scientist who chose to follow them. Un follow is a pretty cool thing by the way.
So I decided to push myself and improve the quality of what I was sending out. In doing that, I attracted higher caliber followers and in turn followed higher caliber people.
The key is to know where you get the greatest return from your online investment and to use Twitter as a place where you can gently lead people by the hand to where you shine best.
As far as the poll you did with your customers, your point is well taken. On the other hand, you may have people out there right now who could become your customer that don’t know you exist.
Here’s the thing Paul. I encourage the people I train to have a well balanced “sales mix” inclusive of social media strategies. The main purpose of that is complete respect to our customers and potential customers who each have their preferred venue. Some love email, some face to face networking, some phone, some Twitter and Linkedin. Why limit ourselves?
Lastly, like you, I’m a work in progress. 6 months from now, I may decide that my time is better spent elsewhere.
One thing is for certain and that’s that I refuse to quit any attempt I make at anything until I can say I gave it a fair shot.
Thanks for your input Paul!
Paul Castain
Spot on!
It’s funny, I’ve followed Twitter bread crumbs here several times— each time I’ve found myself nodding and smiling. Love the rhythm and wisdom of your writing. Twight on. (sorry, couldn’t help myself).
Great article. This should be posted at Twitter registration.
It really is about Twitterville, a personal community of interesting people that you get to hand pick.
As I see it Corporate brands need to keep the “personality” or the “essence of the brand” in mind. This is a place where a brand can come to life but you must have “personality” not just corporate updates. Example, I love those companies who CEO or CMO participate in real folk tweets.
On the other hand, Individuals need to cultivate their community with rich consistent nuggets of shared insights, ideas and resources.
Again, very efficient article and should be required reading. I’m inspired to go fourth and become a better tweep.
Wow, another great article from the master! Thanks Paul, I have learned so much from you in the past couple of months. You will need to start charging me tuition pretty soon!
So well said. Engagement is the name of the game!
@Mic Thanks! I appreciate you taking the time to stop by to say that!
@Amanda: “Twight” on is cool but don’t ever call me a “tweep” . . . doesn’t look right on Uncle Paul’s table
@Tami: Well stated. It’s really up to us. Isn’t it? I think there are so many people out there showing up waiting to be entertained as if Twitterville owes them something.
Like anything else, we get what we put in. The same holds true with any community and has been that way for thousands of years. Nothing new, just some fancy technology we get to confuse the point of it all with.
@ Nils: Master? Nope . . . just the ringmaster in this crazy circus
Seriously, its always an honor to give back. The sales profession has been very kind to me and my family. Payback doesn’t have to be a bitch!
@ Sandy: You nailed it! Again, no different than anything else we are doing to connect with people. Twitter allows us to embrace that engagement with more people!
Thank you all for stopping by and contributing!
Paul
Love your new blog/website, Paul. It reflects the quality of the owner.
Your post is a living example of your message. If we just go forth and do what you done, we’ll be just fine, thank you.
Hank
Hank, my man . . . thank you for the kind words!
As I mentioned in this blog post, you were (and are) one of the people I studied in this crazy online space.
You bring new meaning to approachable and I am grateful for the friendship we share.
Note to self: Stop sounding like a Hallmark Card
Note to everyone: I’ll be back. I’m going outside to get into a fist fight with someone. I’m starting to get all wussy.
Rock on Hank!
Paul
Paul,
Just adding to the praise. Great post. Nice looking blog.
Rock on to you too!
Nigel
Hi Paul,
thanks for this wakeup call. I will immediately undust my sleeping Twitter account and get to work.
You are truly an inspiration. And great that you changed your web page, finally I can get you also in China on a regular base.
keep rocking
Roy
@Nigel Edelshain Thank you for the kind words.
FYI: Nigel has a fantastic group on Linkedin called Sales 2.0. Lots of talk about how we can leverage Sales 2.0 tools such as Twitter, Linkedin etc. Hope you’ll join. I’m glad I did!
@Roy Schoettle: If it weren’t for the proverbial wake up call, I would have over slept on many a new distinction my friend!
I appreciate the kind words and quite frankly its just an honor to give back.
Double rock horns to you Roy!
Respectfully,
Paul Castain
An incredibly well-written reminder that everyone should print out and stick on their monitor (well, maybe just the talking points).
But you’re spot on with a lot of what is happening on Twitter today. I’ve heard it said before and I have to say it again, when the marketers move in, the members move out. So, if you want your following to stay fresh, you have to stay real and remember to always have an “attitude of gratitude”. Moving from member to marketer in 3 tweets or less is not cool.
Thank you for all your efforts to bring us this great article Paul!
Rock da house!
Great article. I thought you really hit it on the head. People need to understand quality over quantity!
Hi Paul,
Fantastic article!!! I am new to the land called “Twitter” and look forward to applying some of the helpful tips you’ve presented!
I think this was an innovative, and well thought out presentation, and absolutely want to thank you for posting!
I like this Paul, it’s spot on!!
Paul,
Another Twitter post that reminds me I am three blog post behind. Thanks for the always entertaining articles.
Chris,
Nicely done Paul!
Did you coin the term “flatliners” with this meaning? Love it!
~ Jeff
This explains the real use of Twitter perfectly – or at least what it should be! Thanks.
Kat
So that’s how it is done! Thanks PC. I just need to find time
Best
Jonathan