How To Deal With A "Stage 5 Clinger" At A Networking Event

A “clinger” is someone who clings to people.

Not in a freaky “you better back off before I get an order of protection” kind of way;

They cling to the same people at networking events.

They cling to the same people on their social networks.

Speaking of which;

Many times they resemble that relative that has to comment on EVERYTHING you post on Facebook.

They cling to the same people at company events and even . . .

The same parents at their kid’s sports games.

Why?

Because its safe!

People who have already accepted you typically won’t reject you;

unless of course . . . You cling too much!

But how does one deal with a “clinger” at a networking event?

Whenever I need to end a conversation at a networking event (with clingers and non clingers) I say;

(Name of person), I’ve really enjoyed chatting with you, I actually promised myself that I would get out of my comfort zone and try and meet a lot of new people today. Its really been a pleasure.

I then extend my hand (which is the universal sign for “We’re done here”) and I move on.

Simple, effective, and it doesn’t make the other person feel like you just left them cab fare on the night table.

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