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You Are Not Defined . . .

Posted October 19, 2011

You are not defined by your failures, your success, how much or how little money you have.

You are not defined by the family you come from or the school you went to.

You are not defined by your age or your experience.

You are not defined by the heartaches and let downs nor are you defined by the joy and level of gratitude you have.

You are defined by the meaning YOU choose to assign to these circumstances!

Hard to do when you don’t stop long enough to reflect.

What’s it all mean?

Nothing . . . until you chose to define it or perhaps even redefine a meaning that is truly limiting you.

11 thoughts on “You Are Not Defined . . .

  1. Paul – thanks for this post today – so true and I so needed to hear it.  Every once in a while you need to re-jig your thought process…!!

  2. Paul-  Great thoughts.  You might claim to be a “sales” trainer but this post proves that the training you offer is much more than that.

    Love your posts thanks for doing what you do.

  3. Paul, there are times things speak right to your heart and/or you needed to hear the right words desperately. Today is one of those times … thank you. Thank you.

    With appreciation,

    Elena

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