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Why Most “Break Up” Emails Are A Bad Move For Sales Reps

Posted June 9, 2020

I’ve never been a fan of “break up” style emails, especially during the prospecting phase.

Why?

Several reasons;

They limit your options. Why would you close the door and cut off the ability to contact them again?

In many cases, you’re giving up too soon.

Case in point;

I received 3 cold emails over the course of 2 weeks recently. The third email was a “break up” email.

So you’ve sent 3 emails and never once picked up a phone, tried to build a relationship on LinkedIn, sent a handwritten note, done something creative, and;

You’ve invested 2 whole weeks, so;

You throw in the towel?

Possible exception?

I guess if you have a time sensitive offer, then it makes sense, but other than that, why wouldn’t you just let it cool off and then heat it up again in the future?

Your prospect has heard most of these way too many times before.

Like the old “Close the file” approach where you let them know that you’re considering “closing the file” since you haven’t heard back from them.

I think I speak for all decision makers out there when I say;

Who gives a sh*t if you close my file?

Are you going to shrink me and attempt to smother me in your file? In the words of the immortal McLovin “Good luck, you don’t have the steady hand or the technology to pull off a procedure like that!”

And if we’re being totally honest . . .

If you’re going to threaten me, tell me you’re going to cut off my cigars and bourbon supply, or that you’re going to tell everyone that I think its acceptable to have pineapple on a pizza (I don’t by the way).

And then there’s this;

You’re doing absolutely NOTHING to stand out when you use this approach.

And did I mention that “break up” style emails limit your options?

So instead of a break up;

Couldn’t you just take a break?

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  • How to use embedded emails to add a much needed human element to your emails.
  • One EPIC mistake, just about every sales rep makes, in the first sentence of an email.
  • 10 call to actions that are more appropriate during the pandemic.
  • How to dramatically increase your response rate

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