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Don't Let Your Past Discourage You From Trying

Posted February 13, 2015

I didn't hear no bell

Back in 1995 I lost my first business!

Even after I dug my family out of the financial mess ($60,000 in debt and two cars repossessed) it ate away at my soul.

I felt as if I got my ass kicked on the playground by someone I should have done the ass kicking to.

Actually that’s not accurate, I felt like I got my ass kicked by the nerd and it never sat well with me.

The only problem was that I let it stop me from trying again for 16 years.

Somehow, prior to that moment, I let my past discourage me from the old “try, try again” thing!”

Today, I own a Sales Training Company that dwarfs my first business!

I’ve also had the same sad dance with weight loss.

I’ve tried to do it and when I’ve failed there’s that sh*tty inner voice that says “I don’t know why you keep trying, you always fail. Stay down Castain you’ll only get your ass kicked again!”

This week, I decided to face this bully and get back to the gym and get my eating habits back on track.

The past doesn’t have to dictate our future in fact . . .

It can inspire it!

I write this today, as someone who, just like you, struggles at times but;

Has the belief and audacity to keep getting up when life knocks me on my ass!

I also would like to think that I have the smarts to realize why I was knocked to the ground in the first place.

Otherwise you become a glorified punching bag.

Today’s blog post is for all of you who have an inner bully in need of a serious ass kicking.

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