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What To Do When Your Competitor Is Badmouthing You!

Posted July 25, 2016

So there you are competing for someone’s business, and then you find out that your competitor is badmouthing you.

What do you do?

You obviously DON’T want to stoop to that level, but you DO need to respond if your prospect shares it with you.

I have a three step formula that I teach my coaching clients, today I’m going to share the first step;

Neutralize!

When we neutralize something, we’re stopping something from becoming effective or harmful.

So in the spirit of being a good coach, let me ask you;

How can you neutralize a negative comment about you and your company?

One of the things you can do is respond with a question!

We don’t respond with a question to avoid the original question (or imitate a politician), we’re doing it because;

The minute we ask a question, we regain control of the interaction and can direct it in a more favorable direction.

Questions can also lead someone on a path of self discovery, which is more powerful than you saying whatever it is you want them to know.

So, with that in mind, what question(s) could you ask in response to a prospect telling you, your competitor is running their mouth about you?

Another way to neutralize, is to say something unexpected, a left hook, if you will.

Most people would expect a sales rep to get defensive and offer a multitude of explanations.

What if you didn’t?

What if you smiled and said “We take business, from them several times a month, do you really think their going to say nice things about us?”

Here’s one that I used a while back.

“Before we progress too far in this conversation, I need to ask you, are you going to award this business based on merit, or ability to badmouth each other?”

There’s obviously more to it but this will help you take BETTER control of these types of discussions.

And speaking of taking BETTER control;

How Do You Take BETTER Control . . .

Without being controlling, contrived and manipulative?

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